When we first realized Kara was being abused, we were all in disbelief. This seemingly wonderful man just didn’t seem capable of that. A domestic violence counselor said to see if his actions matched his words. They didn’t and they still don’t. I know actions speak louder than words, I’ve heard it numerous times. It was such valuable advice for both Kara and I to live by. We wanted so badly to believe he was going to turn it around and do the right thing, he just never could/would.
